How do I get matched with other members?
Quick answer: Once your profile is complete, our matching algorithm searches for people who align with your answers and preferences.
- Focuses on quality over quantity, filtering out inactive members
- Matches on shared values and complementary traits, not just similarity
- Messaging requires a mutual like first
- Use Intro Messages to reach someone who hasn't liked you back yet
Once you've completed your profile, our matching algorithm searches our member database to find you compatible matches.
It takes into account the answers you gave during your onboarding and the Preferences you selected.
You cannot search our website for members; we do the work and recommend compatible matches for you.
We do not claim to offer you a long list of profiles, but instead prefer quality to quantity.
We automatically filter out members that are no longer active on the site.
We’re convinced that the best relationships are between people who are not 100% identical, but enjoy a mixture of common denominators and complementary characteristics.
This is the prerequisite for a successful, long-lasting relationship.