Quick answer: Our matching algorithm surfaces people who align with your answers and preferences, focused on quality over quantity.
- Filters out inactive members so matches are active and relevant
- Focuses on shared values and complementary traits, not just similarity
- Messaging requires a mutual like first
- Use Intro Messages to reach someone before they've liked you back
Once your profile is complete, our matching algorithm gets to work — searching for people who align with your answers and preferences.
We focus on quality over quantity, filtering out inactive members to ensure that every match you see is active, relevant, and thoughtfully selected.
Our philosophy is simple: the strongest relationships aren’t built on being identical. They’re rooted in shared values and complementary traits — the kind of balance that leads to deeper, more meaningful connections.
How do I message my match?
To start messaging with someone, there must first be a mutual like. This helps ensure that conversations begin with mutual interest and a genuine desire to connect.
You can now also use the Intro-Message feature in order to contact a person that has not liked you back yet. This allows you to introduce yourself and improve your odds of creating a meaningful connection.