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How to Send an Intro Message

Quick answer: An Intro Message is a short note (up to 400 characters) sent along with a Like to introduce yourself.

  • Available when liking a profile from Discover or Recommended
  • Tap Send Intro next to Like/Dislike, write your message, tap Send
  • Uses one of your limited Intro Messages — can't be sent alone

See Intro Messages – common questions for your allowance limits.

Intro Messages let you send a short note along with a Like to introduce yourself before someone decides whether to Like you back.

What Is an Intro Message?

An Intro Message is a message of up to 400 characters that's sent together with a Like. The recipient can read your message before deciding whether to Like you back.

Before you get started, keep these things in mind:

  • An Intro Message is always sent with a Like and can't be sent on its own.
  • Sending an Intro Message uses one of your available Intro Messages.
  • You can always send a regular Like without including an Intro Message.

Where You Can Send Intro Messages

You can send an Intro Message when liking a profile from:

  • Discover
  • Recommended

How to Send an Intro Message

  1. Open a profile in Discover or Recommended.
  2. Tap Send Intro next to the Dislike and Like buttons.
  3. Enter your message (up to 400 characters).
  4. Tap Send.

Your Intro Message and Like will be sent together.

If you don't want to include a message, tap Send a Like Only to send a regular Like instead. You can also close the dialog by tapping outside of it.

First-Time Like

If you're sending your first Like, or you're using a device for the first time, tapping the Like button will open the Intro Message dialog. This one-time prompt lets you know that you can include an Intro Message with your Like.

How Many Intro Messages Can I Send?

  • Basic (Free): 3 Intro Messages every 7 days
  • Premium: 20 Intro Messages every 7 days

Your Intro Message allowance resets on a rolling 7-day basis, which means each Intro Message becomes available again seven days after it's sent.

If you've used all of your Intro Messages:

  • Basic members will be prompted to upgrade to Premium.
  • Premium members will see when their next Intro Message becomes available.

If you still need help, contact Customer Support.

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