Quick answer: Once you and another member have both liked each other, you can message directly from the Chats tab.
- Open the Chats tab, select your match, type your message, and tap Send
- Works on both Basic and Premium plans
- To reach someone before matching, send an Intro Message instead
- To remove a conversation, remove the match
See Why did a match or message disappear? if a chat vanished unexpectedly.
Once you and another member have both liked each other, you can message each other directly.
To start or continue a conversation:
- Open the Chats tab.
- Select the match you want to message.
- Type your message in the text box and tap Send.
Good to know
- You can message any member you've matched with, on both Basic and Premium.
- Want to reach someone before you've matched? Send an Intro Message instead.
- To remove a conversation, remove the match — see How to delete a message or chat?
If a conversation disappeared, see Why did a match or message disappear?